Why He Doesn’t Say ‘I Love You’

It’s a running joke amongst women that men find it excruciating to mutter the words ‘I Love You’ every once in a while.

Girls all over the world have repeatedly asked me why their boyfriends, husbands and even male friends can’t seem to say those three simple words…but that’s just it – to men ‘I Love You’ isn’t simple. So to try an decode some of this macho mumbo-jumbo for you, take a look at my top reasons your man won’t say I Love You…

It’s Embarrassing

Men are often embarrassed about sharing their feelings with you in case you laugh or make fun out of them.

It’s Emasculating

A lot of men find the three words very emasculating to say and are worried about you seeing them as weak or pathetic.

Commitment Phobic

Men are often anxious that once they say I love you, you’ll have them tied to a binding contract for the rest of their lives.

Uninterested

Men will often avoid saying I love you because deep down they know that you’re not the girl for them.

Upbringing

Some men come from a background where affection wasn’t openly shared. This can have a lasting effect on your man which can sometimes lead him to feel uncomfortable about showing open emotion.

So there we have it girls…now we know some of the reasons why – we just need to find the cure…