Posted by Rich in Popular, Relationships | 0 comments
What Guys Want In Bed
1. He Wants Encouragement
Despite their macho exterior – guys appreciate a lot of encouragement from their girlfriends. They like to know that their efforts in bed are not in vain and if they are, they like to be gently pointed in the right direction. Be vocal during sex, emphasise how much you love something when he gets it right…I know this is the sort of training you’d give a dog but – if the shoe fits…
2. He Wants You To Take Control
Your guy will love it if you spring a bit of dominance on him once in a while. Every so often, grab him unexpectedly and make him do exactly what you say. Guys love to be told what to do and what’s more, they’re very eager to please. This is the perfect chance for you to be on top and call all the shots in bed as well as giving him an extra lesson in what you gets you off in bed – use this time wisely.
3. He Wants To Watch You
Guys are very visual creatures and you’ll be hard pushed to find a man who doesn’t like watching his girlfriend perform for him. Make him sit on the bed fully clothed as you slowly undress yourself right in front of your eyes. The longer you keep yourself out of reach the better – he’ll literally be crawling over the bed to touch you!
4. He Wants You To Be Dirty
Guys love it when girls are dirty without being coerced into it. Most girls don’t want to show their naughty side in case they ruin the ‘perfect’ image they’ve tenderly created over the time you’ve been together; but forget it. Men love their girlfriends to suggest new things to try and show them how much they love having sex. Try suggesting a new sex position you’ve read recently or perhaps even take him to a sex shop to pick out a few toys. He’ll love your enthusiasm for sex and he’ll also get to see a new intriguing dimension to your personality.
5. He Wants You To Hint
Lets be honest with ourselves here for a moment girls. A good majority of guys don’t have a clue when it comes to your intimates so a few subtle hints and a little guidance will certainly go a long way. Your guy will appreciate the extra help as you tell him “How good <insert here> feels” or “I love it when you…”. Be careful though, Men don’t like to be wrong or feel inadequate so tread carefully and make sure your ‘suggestions’ are heavily disguised as something other than you telling him what he’s doing is wrong.
