Should A Woman Ever Propose?

Depending on the kind of woman you are, you’ll either be a proponent of the female proposal or go white at the thought of such a preposterous idea. Whatever your thoughts on engagements are, check out the popular pros and cons of a woman’s proposal to a man…

Yes – 29th February Is Traditional

According to old traditions, a woman may propose to a man ‘legitimately’ on the 29th of February. This elusive date only occurs once every four years – during leap years which make up for the 365 and a 1/4 days we have per year. I think there’s something very romantic about this, allowing women a rare day to propose to a man. It’s more special, isn’t it?

No – It Goes Against Hollywood

I think a lot of women out there want to live that beautiful Hollywood moment where their man gets down on one knee and asks for their hand in marriage. Many women in fact fantasise about how their future husband will propose – so what happens if you get there first? Haven’t you just ruined your childhood dreams?

Yes – It Shows Women Are Equal To Men

Women are becoming increasingly equal to men in modern western societies and with this equality, why shouldn’t women be able to propose to men? A woman proposing to a man just reinforces that both sexes are on the same level.

No – It Emasculates Your Man

Just as you fantasise about the ways your man might propose, so will he. Proposing to your man may ruin any plans he has for your engagement, making him feel rushed and disappointed that you had to ask him. Make sure you think carefully about proposing to your man, how will it make him feel deep down?

Yes – You Could Wait Forever For Him

Some men just need a little guidance in the right direction. He may want to get engaged but has never found the courage or the right time to pop the question. Being proactive and proposing to him may actually be the right thing to do – men are usually hopeless after all!

No – He May Not Be Ready

If he hasn’t proposed to you there’s a good chance he’s just not ready yet. Proposing unannounced may just pile on the pressure which is likely to end in rejection. It’s always a good idea to test the water first and find out how he’d feel about a girlfriend proposing to him and more importantly, when he feels he’d like to be engaged.