Read His Body Language

So… you meet a guy for the first time and there’s something inside you that whispers he’s interested – but you can’t put your finger on it… Well… It could very well be down to the hundreds of tiny messages men give out through their body lanuage, that girls subconciously pick up. Below’s my top 5 signs that the boy is into you…

1) Longing Stare

Locked eye contact shows confidence and maturity. This guy likes you and is not afriad to show it. Eyes convey so much emotion – try to look sad or happy without your eyes changing shape – it’s impossible. So study his eyes conciously and try to meet his gaze half way – that is if your feelings are mutual.

2) Upward Palm

Your brain has a section of it’s own to exclusively process hand gestures – they are that important! An upward palm is a sign of honesty and openness, inviting you towards him. It doesn’t matter if it is performed while chatting or from across the room, it’s a powerful gesture and you’ll be hard pushed to stop something as simple as a palm not make your tummy flutter.

3) The Chest

Men, as the dominant creatures we are, like to send out a signal to other men in the room to show them who we are interested in. A kind of sign that says, don’t mess with her, she’s mine. And they do this very simply by pointing the entirity of their upper torso towards the woman of their interest and effections. So it doesn’t matter if he’s chilling with his mates, or chatting to another girl, if that chest is pointing at you – you’re the one he wants.

4) Laughs A Lot

Laughing so much so that it becomes noticably too much can be a big sign of nerves, but nerves often mean he cares. So sure, he could do with a bit more confidence, but if he’s laughing at your blatant flirting or silly jokes, find it cute… because he thinks you are.

5) Full smile

When you first meet a guy you’re into, be sure to clock the shape of his smile… it can tell you so much about what he’s thinking. A half smile can mean he’s unsure but still keen, while a full smile that changes the shape of his eyes means he’s smitten. If he throws in a flash of teeth, even better. One thing to watch out for though, the half smile with the raised lip. If he does this girls, it’s nothing personal but I don’t think he thinks you’re the one for him. He also probably has a small penis (ok so there’s no way of telling that but it helps us deal with the fact he probably doesn’t want to know.)

Hope this helps, Mike x