One Night Stand Etiquette

There’s no point pretending you’re a single virgin. Women love sex as much as the next man but are you aware of the one night stand Sexual Etiquette Code of Conduct? I thought not…

Be True To Yourself

Don’t fool yourself into thinking you’re ready to have a one night stand when you know deep down you’re not. Having no strings attached sex isn’t for everyone and can bring a lot of guilty feelings for those of us that aren’t so carefree.

Be Honest With Him

Don’t lead him on to believe your encounter is anything more than sex. Make it clear from the start that you’re not in a position to be in a relationship and if you’re not even looking for new ‘friends’ then make that clear to. Better to be an honest bitch than a bitch who strung him along…

Be Safe

Everyone bangs on about this but how bad would you feel if you caught an STI from a guy you don’t even know? Remember, it’s not you you’ll need to worry about – it’s them.

Avoid Alcohol

It’s a sad fact of life that when drunk, even the ugliest of men get a second thought. If you’re truly looking for a one night stand, better to be with someone who looks half decent, wouldn’t you agree?

Prepare Plan B

Do not meet up with anyone without first letting them no that you have somewhere else to be. That way you can make a quick escape if necessary without making him feel bad. If your rendevous is going particularly well you can always say your prior plans were cancelled…

Don’t Outstay Your Welcome

In my experience there’s nothing worse than a one night stand that went on too long. Once the deed is done – go, unless otherwise invited. Don’t put yourself in the embarrassing position of being asked to leave…aim to keep your dignity!

Don’t Leave Anything Behind

Please don’t leave anything behind, on purpose or by ‘accident’ – enough said.

Remain Detached

Don’t get emotionally involved in the sex – see it for what it is. Don’t kid yourself that it could be anything more – he’s not your boyfriend so enjoy it while it lasts!