How To Save Your Relationship

If you’ve lost your spark and your relationship is suffering as a result, don’t panic and read on. Rich gives you the top tips to rekindling the flame in your rocky romance…

Date Again

A good way to keep your relationship alive is to continue to date even if you’ve been together a long time. Go out for a romantic meal or check out a movie you both want to see – it’ll give you a chance to rekindle some of the memories and feelings you had when you first started dating. Oh, and don’t let the credit crunch get in the way of your dating, light some candles and prepare a restaurant scene from home. Just don’t forget to take dessert to the bedroom…

Do Something Nice

Make him breakfast in bed or run a bath for him in time for his arrival home from work – just one nice thing each day could remind him why he chose you in the first place. Not only that, he may even do the same for you!

Inner Happiness

Being tired, stressed or emotional is bound to have a knock on effect on your relationship, so make sure you take care of your own well-being as well as his. Treat yourself to something nice or take a duvet day – if you’re happy, then he’s happy.

Spill It…

When we keep our mouths shut about things that annoy us just to avoid an argument…they continue to bubble under the surface of our tempers for another day. Instead, sit down and politely discuss what you aren’t happy with and allow him the chance to make his views known also. This will open up the gates of communication and avoid any unwanted rows at the in-laws!

Agree To Disagree

Even the sickeningly perfect couples don’t agree all the time. Sometimes it’s best to just agree to disagree and let the topic go before it turns into a full-scale argument. That way you’ll both feel as though you’ve put your point across without any nasties being thrown.

Have Some Space

Take a long weekend away with the girls or even a holiday if you can manage it. Having time apart will definitely show if there is any passion left in the relationship worth fighting for. There’s a good chance that he’ll miss you when you’re not there and on your return you may just find that the spark has reignited…