How To Get Him Back

Step One – Ignore

Your heart is going to feel like it’s been shattered into a thousand pieces but if you really want to get him back, you’re going to have to ignore him. That’s right, no e-mails, no text messages, no social networking and certainly no phone calls. Giving him space to think about things and let him wonder if you’ve both made the right decision.

Step Two – Remind

Now’s the time to gently remind him of you…emphasis on gently here girls. One way or another you need to subtly move yourself back into his mind. What you want to do now is use the power of nostalgia to your advantage. One way or another (creativity counts here), remind him of the good times you had and what he loved about you most. At no point should your efforts seem suspicious or false – make it genuine and believable!

Step Three –  Date

Once you have given him space and subtlety re-entered his life, the next step is to actually date again. Try and inject some of the passion that was there before. Invite him out on a casual date at first, and then slowly build into something more formal. Use this time to make yourself absolutely irresistible – make him beg to have you back…

Step Four – Remember

There was a reason you broke up in the first place so remember it. It may be that you aren’t meant to be together or perhaps it’s just a chance for you to fix whatever was broken in your relationship. Don’t stay in the past, if the relationship really isn’t working, learn from it – and move on.